Friday, October 16, 2009

Greater Aims

There are times we fall and there are times we rise; just like the sun and the moon; just like the melody that touches the heart of a human and just like the amazing waves in the sea. Yes, they rise and they fall, like a melody’s high and low, and because of that, it makes “it” even beautiful, an unpredictable mystery and a worth memorizing moment which is always the spot light which mostly catch the attention of all. Sometimes I ask myself, is it really true that the ups and downs can teach one to grow and perform the so-called ‘Human’s Evolution’? Maybe, in the near future, I will find out the so-called answer to that particular question that always drives me nuts. Yeah, sometimes I find myself quite crazy, as if I was going wild, cranky, insane, or even not being myself anymore. Well, maybe now I’m facing the down side of it. That’s why I’m creating this title. However, just who would be happy if you are feeling blue? Definitely not me! Whatever it is, I guess, I did what I can and what I must and most importantly, at least I try, by making the best out of it. My advised would be, don’t try to change something impossible that you really feel regret of, and don’t blame on yourself either. For your information, some errors are unavoidable and unpredictable as well. Not to mention, there is no known Mr. or Mrs. Perfect in this reality liked world. But most of all, it won’t be changed anyway. From my point of view, instead trying to change the impossible, why not try living with it, meaning live with your own regrets? Hey, things could be even worst you know? Sometimes, something is meant to be unknown and they are better off not knowing than knowing. It depends though, if it’s for the best of both worlds. I guess, try not to repeat the same mistake again is one solution. What I’m really trying to say is, at least now you know what you get as a result of your action. After that’s over, you won’t repeat the same thing again. Trust me; you won’t want to repeat that again. Dah, who would? If you know you will feel same regret on the same thing all over again? Who would be that stupid? So maybe it’s time for a change, try live with our regrets; maybe that will cure our future lives by making sure history won’t repeat itself. Well, as you know, a negative thinking is not a solution to anything or bringing benefits to anyone. One of my good friends once told me: "Forget the bad but keep the good as a prize for yourself." I think she might be pouring out something very interesting. Yeah, maybe the prize referring here is the solution to the missing puzzle. Anyway, I hope everyone will learn to forgive and forget; that goes to me as well. But come to think of it, it is really easier said than done. Still, I’m sticking to forgive and forget for a change. Well, I have been collecting meaningful phrases for some time, though I don’t have much in hand, I want to share a phrase that I’ve found in my colleges’ wall as it fits the title of the day. It goes like this: “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Yeah, it’s true, I totally agree with that phrase! Sometimes it’s not what people do to you, but it’s what people left after what they did to you. It is almost like leaving a scar on someone else, a deep dark scar. It’s a very selfish act, but fact remains, all human beings are somehow selfish in a way. Some may ask why. Why not try asking ourselves, are you willing to risk yourself, meaning by sacrificing yourself for the sake of others if it means SURVIVAL? As a, live or die dude? I guess not. If it is a yes, I don’t see that’s reasonable enough as you should have sacrificed yourself for others by now, not sitting down on a comfortable chair reading my blog. Well, hey, don’t get me wrong, after all, I’m just voicing out you know. Anyway, I think aiming for something higher, a far greater achievements is something people are searching all the while. However, there are times which we fall as we try to reach the “sky”, but that doesn’t mean it is impossible. Still, if it’s something ridiculously impossible like, I’m going to be a God tomorrow, then you will get responds that goes like this:”Dream on dude!” That is something similar to building castles in the air. There are also other things that are quite important. I guess it’s what we call a “promise”. There are times when I heard some saying that:”Rules are meant to be broken” but not promises, not that. Promises can be applied to a huge variety of choices. Some are for the others and some are for us. But take note that if you can’t handle something you think you can’t, don’t make your promises to both you and the others. Indeed, if you do, maybe you will lose something important and a mark will be deduced. A higher aim needs a person that keeps their promises as if they are keeping their gold, their treasure. I once receive something like a promise, well, it is, actually, and if I’m not wrong, I think it should be twice. Sadly to say, promises are easy to say, easier to make but hard to keep and to maintain. I hardly see someone who kept their promises solid these days, but I know there are, and there really are. It’s something more or liked, a talent, to me, I presume. Yeah, I guess I mean that as you can see, raw talent is rare stuff, but realization of raw talent is even rare. Oh man, sometime these rare businesses make me spins a lot. I guess both are rare to me! Still, every talent has to put in good use. Some goals or aims are only meant to be achieved by these talent holders as not everyone is capable of handling something. Anyway, everyone has its own abilities, and talent. Besides that, I think it’s not wrong or shame to start from zero. Like they said, the right way of going up is from zero to hero, there is no known shortcut to achieve a higher aim. If shortcuts are really put to use, I think you will see something extraordinary like the ones from the dramas- Hero to zero. Well, as for today, I might think that I’m overwhelming by something I somehow find it disrupting. I’m still learning, learning to upgrade myself as I proceed to a better standard. As higher aims in life needs higher discipline, I think I might still be lacking of it. Exams are just around the corner lately. Not to mention the assignments, oh man! It’s an eyesore. Blek!!! All in all, we all know rome was not build in one day, so best of luck to all and may your current aim now be a step closer to where you are currently standing…
Till then...(1230 W, new record)

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